10 Things You Might Forget on Your Wedding Day (But Shouldn’t!)
Planning a wedding is exciting, but with so many details to juggle, it’s easy to forget a few things! From last-minute logistics to simple wedding day essentials, couples often overlook key details that could save time, reduce stress, and even prevent a disaster.
Want a stress-free, smooth-running wedding day? Here are 10 things couples often forget, plus easy tips to make sure you don’t!
1. Eating (Yes, Really!)
With all the excitement, it’s surprisingly easy to forget to eat. Between hair and makeup, greeting guests, and taking photos, the day flies by—until hunger suddenly hits!
Why It Matters:
- You need energy to fully enjoy your day.
- A hungry stomach makes you more prone to stress, headaches, and irritability (not the wedding vibe you want!).
- No one wants a fainting bride or groom mid-ceremony!
Quick Fix:
✔ Eat a hearty breakfast with protein and slow-releasing carbs.
✔ Pack snacks (protein bars, nuts, fruit) and have your bridesmaid or best man remind you to eat throughout the day.
✔ Ask your caterer to set aside a plate for you during the reception—you’d be surprised how many couples barely touch their wedding meal!
2. A Plan for Rain (Even in Summer!)
You’ve checked the weather a hundred times, but let’s be honest—British weather is unpredictable. A last-minute drizzle can throw off outdoor photos, leaving you unprepared.
Why It Matters:
- Without a plan, you might miss out on stunning photos or scramble to stay dry.
- Rain doesn’t have to ruin your day—some of the most romantic wedding shots happen in the rain!
Quick Fix:
✔ Clear or white umbrellas make for beautiful wedding photos.
✔ Check if your venue has indoor backup spots for group photos.
✔ Embrace the weather! Dramatic rainy wedding photos can look incredible.
3. Comfortable Shoes for Later
Yes, those wedding shoes look stunning—but your feet will hate you after hours of standing, walking, and dancing.
Why It Matters:
- Blisters and sore feet can ruin your enjoyment of the day.
- If your feet hurt, you’ll struggle to fully relax and dance the night away.
Quick Fix:
✔ Pack comfy flats, sandals, or even trainers for the evening.
✔ Choose heel protectors if you’re walking on grass.
✔ Break in your wedding shoes before the big day!
4. An Emergency Kit
Weddings come with unexpected moments—a popped button, a broken zip, a headache, or a blister. A well-prepared emergency kit can be a lifesaver.
Why It Matters:
- A minor wardrobe malfunction or sudden headache shouldn’t interrupt your day.
- Having essentials on hand saves time and stress.
Quick Fix:
✔ Pack a kit with:
- Safety pins & fashion tape
- Mini sewing kit
- Painkillers & plasters
- Deodorant & blotting paper
- Stain remover pen
✔ Give it to a trusted bridesmaid or best man!
5. Extra Time in Your Timeline
Wedding days almost always run late!
Why It Matters:
- Hair and makeup often take longer than expected.
- Guests love to chat, which can delay transitions.
- Speeches tend to run over time (especially if the best man gets carried away!).
Quick Fix:
✔ Add at least 10-15 minutes of buffer time to key parts of your day.
✔ Plan for some ‘just us’ time—even 5 minutes alone together makes a difference!
✔ Don’t stress about the schedule—go with the flow and enjoy the day!
6. A Spare Copy of Your Wedding Speeches/Vows
If you’re reading your wedding vows or making a speech, don’t rely on memory (or your phone!).
Why It Matters:
- Nerves and emotions can make you forget even the words you practised a hundred times.
- A phone battery dying mid-speech is every couple’s nightmare.
Quick Fix:
✔ Print two copies and give one to a trusted person.
✔ Screenshot them if using your phone, and put it on do not disturb mode.
✔ Practice out loud! It makes a huge difference.
7. A Photo List for Group Shots
Guests wander off, and before you know it, Uncle John has disappeared to the bar before the family photos even start!
Why It Matters:
- Without a clear list, group photos can take longer than expected.
- Too many group shots = less time for natural, fun photos.
Quick Fix:
✔ Work with your photographer to create a stress-free list of must-have group shots.
✔ Assign a bridesmaid or groomsman to help gather people quickly.
✔ Keep it short and sweet so you can get back to the fun!
8. Supplier Meals
Your wedding suppliers (photographers, videographers, band, planner) work all day without breaks. It’s easy to forget they need food too!
Why It Matters:
- A well-fed supplier = more energy to capture amazing moments.
- No one can give 100% on an empty stomach!
Quick Fix:
✔ Check your catering package and arrange meals for key suppliers.
✔ Make sure they eat when guests do—this way, they don’t miss key moments.
9. A Plan for Your Bouquet (After the Wedding)
What happens to your bouquet after the wedding? Many couples forget to plan for it, and it ends up wilted or abandoned.
Quick Fix:
✔ Dry or press it for a framed keepsake.
✔ Gift it to a parent or grandparent.
✔ Donate it to a hospital or care home to brighten someone’s day.
10. Enjoying the Moment
With so much happening, the day flies by in a blur.
Quick Fix:
✔ Take a step back together and soak it all in.
✔ Don’t stress about small things—perfectly imperfect moments make the best memories.
✔ Have fun! Laugh, cry, dance—this is your day!
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